Some timely messages to myself.

From the 'Wear Sunscreen' column:

Don't waste your time on jealousy.
Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind.
The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.

Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on.
Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.

I've Learned (http://askanitalife.tripod.com/)

I've learned that education, experience, and memories are three things that no one can take away from you.

I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to others - they are more screwed up than you think.

I've learned that most of the things I worry about will never happen

I've learned that I should make little decisions with my head and the big decisions with my heart
I've learned that if you count on others to make you happy, you'll be endlessly disappointed

I've learned it is best to not take action while angry.